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| Brandi in Ocean View |
My life choices…that’s so
strange to think about because it seems so far away but in reality that’s so
close! Well, my life choices have definitely been altered because of this trip.
I think differently now. I feel more socially aware about issues like racism
and sexism. Before this trip if someone made a racist joke I probably would
have laughed and thought it was funny. But by being in your class and seeing
first hand how racism affects people, I feel like I can stand up against it and
tell people how seriously wrong it is. I have learned how even if something
isn’t offensive to you, it could be to someone else. I have really learned a
new perspective on people that I definitely know will affect whom I hang out
with and what I do today, tomorrow and for the rest of my life. I think the
biggest thing is that I have learned to open my eyes. Before I came on the trip
I knew I didn’t have a lot figured out but I thought I knew a good amount about
a lot of things. But boy did that change, especially by being in your class. I
feel like I was so ignorant before I came on this trip but I am not angry at
myself because of it but I now realize how important it is to stay informed. I
have never been much for watching the news or keeping up with social issues but
now I think it is so important to stay informed. Seriously, I know that I will
stay informed when I go home and that will help me so much later on in life.
About my future career; being
here in South Africa just emphasized exactly what I want to do with my life.
Working at Christel House with the grade three children who come from nothing
but work so hard just to live makes me even more passionate about working at
The Hole In The Wall Gang Camp when I am older. I know that I want to travel
and see the world and maybe even start a camp here in South Africa. I just want
to help people and by experiencing all that I have here it has made me realize
how possible it actually is to do that.
I have learned so much about race
and gender that will definitely help me become a more informed global
citizen. I now realize how important it is to talk about issues like race and
gender because it is when we ignore issues that nothing gets solved and the
cycle continues. We watched a video in class about how in the United States
when people drive through places like Harlem we lock out doors and windows. It
gives into the negative stereotype that all black people are bad. That is not
okay. By watching videos provided us, and reading articles and
discussing issues like this, I realize how prevelant these negative stereotypes
are in our culture at home. I see how even before I came I even did some of
those things we discussed because subconsciously I accepted many of the messages that are so prevalent in our culture. Now I
want to break those stereotypes and I feel like I have the power (from our
experiences here and the knowledge I have gained) to stand up to close friends and call them out on a racist remark or sexist comment. The talks we had about
how women are portrayed in media and so many different areas blew my mind as
well. I never realized how sexualized and degraded women are just in simple
magaizines in the US and even on billboards here. I learned that by women
calling each other ‘sluts’ and ‘bitches’ it only makes it okay for men to call
us that too. Its disgusting when I think how often those terms are used on a
daily basis at UConn, whether it’s a man calling a woman those things or even
women calling each other that.
I feel like I have learned so much
about so many issues that are right under my nose at home that I never would
have known or realized by coming here. I think by opening my eyes to so many
issues like race and gender I see how many more issues need to be addressed. I
think everything I have learned makes me a more informed global citizen because
even though I don’t know everything about the topics we covered in class I
still know so much more then I did. And by even acknowledging that such things exist is
the first step in making a change. I feel like I can make other people more
aware to and assist them in becoming more aware.
Now here comes the big part- what I
learned about myself. I know I have talked about this before but I think the
biggest thing I learned was how to love myself. I learned that I really truly
love myself and this is the first time in my life I can honestly say that. I
wish I could say how it happened but I really can't pinpoint it on one specific
event. I think it started at camp this past summer when I learned that there is
more to life then surface level fake ideas that people so dearly cling onto
because they don’t want to open their eyes and heart to things other then
themselves. From working at camp with such incredible people and children I
learned that it is possible to love every second of every day. From camp to
coming on this trip, I feel like I have grown so much as a person. Not only am
I more self aware, but also I am more aware about things happening right in
front of me. I am more perceptive to sexist and racist remarks and I now see
how there is so much more to a person then what you think you already know.
Like I said before though, the
biggest thing I think I learned about myself is that I am okay. I know I am not
perfect (definitely not perfect) but I am comfortable with myself. I think by
learning to accept myself I have learned to accept other people even more and
that is so important. I also have learned how important emotions truly are. Openly crying during some class discussion made me realize how important emotions and feelings
really are. Its also important to me that I realized I am not alone on so many
different things. Even though all of us may have wanted to scream at each other
more often then once on this trip, I have learned patience and realized that
someone may be going through a hard time at the moment. I think it is so
important that I experienced everything I did here. I think coming into this
trip with no expectations really made me see how important it is to stay open
minded.
